| INTRODUCTION TO CHILDS PLAY.
Locked in their world of close circuit TV reality life and crude imagery far away from the streets of their play liberty the jingles they play and the media tells lies whilst their childhood is lost in their sadness and smiles the thunder it roared and the prophets foretold of days yet to be when childhood grew old there were limbs on the trees and fields left to roam but the candle was dimmed and their visions where closed their masters and kinfolk guided their dreams with take away foods and horrific loud screams there was food on the table and news on the spree where doctrines and war crimes paraded for thee the masters of visions crafted their dreams with false words and logic no room for ice cream the songs and the rhymes were lost in the maze of corrupted lost childhoods in the latest whizz craze the songsters were singing the same dulcet tones with bleached hair and promises wrapped up in gold the streets they were quiet no sounds of child's play another dream over at the end of the day whilst a comic gave rant and a poet he prayed for a childhood forsaken and a vision waylaid.
The most famous illustrator of Children at Play was EILEEN SOPER
Here are just a few of her works
For a delightfull day out vist the the Illustrated Worlds of Eileen.Soper
WHEN CHILDREN PLAY.
Now the beauty of the thing when children play is the terrible wonderfull length of the day is up you jumps and out into the sun and you fancy the day will never be done and your chasing the bum bees bumming so cross in the hot sweet air amongst the goss or gathering bluebells or looking for eggs or petting the ducks with their yellow legs or a shouting for devilment after the gulls or a thining of nothing but down at the tide singing out for the happy inside and when you look back its all in a puff happy and over and short enough
T. E. BROWN.
THE FLYAWAY HORSE
And the flyaway horse seeks those far away lands, You little ones dream of at night- Where candy trees grow and honey brooks flow, And the corn- fields with pop -corn are white. To children who visit them there, What glory astride of a lion to ride, Or to wrestle around with a bear. Come let us play, As they frisk in the coconut trees, Whilst the parrots that cling, To the pea nuts vines sing, Or converse with comparative ease. By EUGENE FIELDS.
PAGES OF CHILDHOOD.
Flickering through pages of a bye gone age looking through the pictures memories i have saved childhood reflections drifting through time words of remembrance in this world of mine newts and tadpoles caught dreams and wonders that could not be bought trains that bellowed steam twisting trails of countryside scenic views serene many years ago summers were long then winters freezing snow bonfires touched the sky Catherine wheels that spun my world right up to the sky candy floss at fairs flowers on the heath then apples and sweet pears haystacks and dens to build river banks and swans toffee apples licked and dreams yet to be fulfilled strangers were not known crickets in the meadows nights i played alone durdle door and fun sandcastles to build races for to run trips to London town happy days of holidays leaves of golden brown blackberry picking ponies for to ride days out to the picture shows watch the evening tide painted in my book grandmas pudding recipes Xmas puds to cook another for your thoughts all of these precious memories can never o'er be bought. Childs play study 1977.
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At evening when the lamp is lit, Around the fire my parents sit, They sit at home and talk and sing, And do not play at anything. . ROBERT LOUIS STEVENSON.
The Benefits of creative and imaginative play
Organizing play for kids has never seemed like more work.
But researchers Adele Diamond and Deborah Leong have good news:
The best kind of play costs nothing and really only has one main requirement — imagination.
Self-regulation is a critical skill for kids.
Unfortunately, most kids today spend a lot of time doing three things: watching television, playing video games and taking lessons. None of these activities promote self-regulation.
Deborah Leong, professor of psychology at Metropolitan State College of Denver, Elena Bodrova, senior researcher with Mid-Continent Research for Education and Learning, and Laura Berk, professor of psychology at Illinois State University recommend the following.
Simon Says: Simon Says is a game that requires children to inhibit themselves. You have to think and not do something, which helps to build self-regulation.
Complex Imaginative Play: This is play where your child plans scenarios and enacts those scenarios for a fair amount of time, a half-hour at a minimum, though longer is better.
Sustained play that last for hours is best. Realistic props are good for very young children, but otherwise encourage kids to use symbolic props that they create and make through their imaginations. For example, a stick becomes a sword.
Activities That Require Planning: Games with directions, patterns for construction, recipes for cooking, for instance.
Joint Storybook Reading: "Reading storybooks with preschoolers promotes self-regulation, not just because it fosters language development, but because children's stories are filled with characters who model effective self-regulatory strategies," says researcher Laura Berk.
She cites the classic example of Watty Piper's The Little Engine That Could, in which a little blue engine pulling a train of toys and food over a mountain breaks down and must find a way to complete its journey. The engine chants, "I think I can. I think I can. I think I can," and with persistence and effort, surmounts the challenge.
Encourage Children to Talk to Themselves: "Like adults, children spontaneously speak to themselves to guide and manage their own behavior," Laura Berk says.
"In fact, children often use self-guiding comments recently picked up from their interactions with adults, signaling that they are beginning to apply those strategies to themselves. "Permitting and encouraging children to be verbally active — to speak to themselves while engaged in challenging tasks — fosters concentration, effort, problem-solving, and task success." — Alix Spiegel
CHILDHOOD DAYS Childhood tears and grazed young knees games of chase and girls to tease summer days on farmers lands many wishes holding hands kisses chased and tumbling fun there besides the rabbits run
conker trees and minnow nets river banks and summer guests seaside antics in the sand listen to the weymouth band rocks of white and seagull flights kites to fly and wars to fight
cowboys indians and robin hood dogs to chase and always told to be good sweets to savor and gum to chew chase a girl tissue tissue castles tall and rainbow skies daisy chains and lullaby's
trains to ride and seeds to sow cows in pasture n rodeo whips to crack and stones to throw geese to chase and falling snow hills to climb and dens to build brothers and sisterhoods
soccer games in banter play school is out for holiday flick card fun and darts to throw childhood pleasures long ago.
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| QUOTES SAYINGS AND VERSE ON CHILDS PLAY. Many famous writers philosophers poets and learned men have voiced their views over generations as to the importance and value of Childs Play. Here I present just a few of these words of wisdom. ~Jean de la Bruyere "In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play". "Soon there wont be a blade of grass, nor a field for the children to run free and their lungs and their limbs will grow weak." WILLIAM BARNES , Dorset dialect poet and visionary. "You are worried about seeing him spend his early years in doing nothing. What! Is it nothing to be happy? Nothing to skip, play, and run around all day long? Never in his life will he be so busy again." Friedrich Nietzsch. "You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation." Plato "Play energizes us and enlivens us. It eases our burdens. It renews our natural sense of optimism and opens us up to new possibilities." Stuart Brown, M.D. Ralph Waldo Emerson "Life must be lived as play". Plato "In our play we reveal what kind of people we are". Ovid "Play is our brain's favorite way of learning". Diane Ackerman "Culture arises and unfolds in and as play". Johan Huizinga "Almost all creativity involves purposeful play". Abraham Maslow "Whoever wants to understand much must play much". Gottfried Benn "Play is the only way the highest intelligence of humankind can unfold". Joseph Chilton Pearce G. K. Chesterton Fred Rogers Benjamin Spock Stuart Brown, M.D. Frank Caplan George Santayana David Hockney Kay Redfield Jamison "Do not…keep children to their studies by compulsion but by play". Plato "Deep meaning lies often in childish play". Johann Friedrich von Schiller Heraclitus "Surely all God’s people…like to play". John Muir "Children at play are not playing about. Their games should be seen as their most serious minded activity". Michel de Montaigne Roger von Oech Stuart Brown, M.D. "You can discover more about a person in an hour of play than in a year of conversation". Plato "The creation of something new is not accomplished by the intellect but by the play instinct". Carl Jung "In play a child always behaves beyond his average age, above his daily behavior. In play it is as though he were a head taller than himself". Lev Vygotsky "Creative people are curious, flexible, persistent, and independent with a tremendous spirit of adventure and a love of play". Henri Matisse "The opposite of play is not work. It’s depression". Brian Sutton-Smith Marc Bekoff Joan Almon Gretchen Owocki Nagle Jackson. ~Jean de la Bruyere "In every real man a child is hidden that wants to play". ~Friedrich Nietzsche “The adventure playground is an attempt to give the city child a substitute for the play and development potential it has lost as the city has become a place where there is no space for the child’s imagination and play". "Access to all building sites is forbidden to unauthorized persons, there are no trees where the children can climb and play Tarzan". "The railway station grounds and the common, where they used to be able to fight great battles and have strange adventures, do not exist any more". “It is now not easy to be a child in the city when you feel the urge to be a caveman or a bushman”. Bertelsen “It is like putting a magnifying glass on the community" - Francis McLennon / Leader of Angel Town Adventure Playground-London. "It is a source of experience which the child can tap freely and at will, without compulsion, restriction or commitment, the child learns to live, work and pfree,friendly and in a self disciplined way" .- Tony Chilton, Leader of Blacon / Chester Adventure Playground. "To desire to experiment and to build, to find out for himself, it is natural and necessary to the twelve year old, as to the sand and water stage to the three year olds". "The adventure playground was conceived specifically for this, to provide for this kind of activity, it was to be the workshop of the child". - Joe Benjamin / Leader of London Adventure Playground. "The ugliest, yet for me it is the best and most beautiful of all my works". J.H.SORENSON. (Leader and Architect) -When commenting on the first Adventure Playground at EMDRUPT. "Their primary function is to help to create an atmosphere which is child Centred; where there are no meaningless limitations or restrictions, apart from Tony Chilton writing about Play in Newcastle upon Tyne in the 80s comments about Adventure Playgrounds. |
| v What is Childs Play? ![]()
In this section of the website I am going to look into the function of Children’s Play as defined by psychologists, writers and learned men throughout history.
Childhood and play
He declared that play activity, driven by surplus energy is directed towards activities which have a prominent role in the animal's/person's life. He emphasised a close relationship between art and play saying that "..art is but one kind of play." The form that the play takes is dependent upon the level of development of the player, but he distinguished divisions of forms of play; as being, sensory-motor play. games with rules . Schiller (1875) He believed that "play had no real purpose other than to use up excess energy". Schillier said that "..play is the aimless expenditure of exuberant energy....children and young animals, not concerned with self preservation, have surplus energy which they expended through play." Freud, Piaget and Vygotsky developed theories which relate play to the world of children and many others have restated the significance of play within a child's life. Bruner (1972); Nature and Uses of Immaturity; identifies play of having various different functions, such as minimising the consequences of action, therefore learning in a less risky situation, and the opportunity to try combinations of behaviour that would not otherwise be tried. Others, have since taken on board the therapeutic nature and the ability of play to help identify problems. Freud identified his theories of play as a repetition of symbolic games being the ego's attempt to repeat actively a traumatic event, previously experienced passively, thus allowing the child to gain mastery over the event. From this, a psychoanalytic approach to child analysis developed which used play to interpret the child's unconscious motivation. Anna Freud
Freud looked for the unconscious motivation behind imaginative play, drawings and paintings, dreams and daydreams. She emphasised the importance of the relationship between the therapist and the child, in particular, the initial stages, She pointed out that this relationship was problematic because the parents (the original love object) are still very much active in the child's life, thus leading to strong positive transference, but difficult negative transference and a transference neurosis does not develop Klein
Took this a step further and believed that behind every playful action, there is a symbolic meaning. Thus she furnished direct access to the child's unconscious. Klein believed that spontaneous play in a child was equal to free association of an adult. This theory is problematic, because it relies on an adult interpretation of a child's actions -
"the child who runs towards a visitor and opens her purse, need not thereby as Melanie Klein thinks, have expressed symbolically its curiosity as to whether or not a new little sister is concealed within the body of its mother. It might be associating in its mind the experience of the previous day in which someone who had entered had brought in a small gift in a bag." Others have taken the view that, contrary to the psychoanalytic approach which relies on the medium of play to indicate the source of problems, the play is the therapeutic process itself. Winnicott
Developed an approach to working with children, which saw play as central to the therapeutic experience, believing that children's play has a direct continuity with what he described as an 'intermediate area' in adult experience, such as art and religion, where the strain of managing the transition between inner and outer reality is relatively unchallenged and therefore anxiety free. Play was therefore the means whereby the child manages the transition between the inner world of the psyche and outer reality and thus "always on the theoretical line between the subjective and that which is objectively perceived" (Winnicott 1988:59) Non-directive play therapy looks at play as a healing process. It gives the child the opportunity to 'play out' feelings and problems and learns about themself in relation to the therapist. Play in this model is not seen as stimulation for other kinds of therapy, rather as the therapeutic intervention itself. The focus of this theory is on the healing process of play. Virginia Axline (1947/69)
Has been instrumental in the development of this approach. She believed that the child has within them the ability to solve their own problems. She emphasised the use of play therapy to allow a child to reach for independence. Non-directive therapy allows for the acceptance of the child without judgement or pressure to change. Play is the child's natural medium for expression and in play therapy, the child can play out feelings of tension, frustration, insecurity, aggression, fear, bewilderment and confusion. Axline defines eight guidelines for practice;
1) The therapist must develop a warm friendly relationship with the child, in which good rapport is established as soon as possible. 2) The therapist accepts the child exactly as she is. 3) The therapist establishes a feeling of permissiveness in the relationship so that the child feels free to express feelings completely. 4) The therapist is alert to recognise the feelings the child is expressing and reflects those feelings back in a manner that gives the child an insight into her behaviour. 5) The therapist maintains a deep respect for the child's ability to solve problems if given the opportunity. The responsibility to make changes and institute change is the child's. 6) The therapist does not attempt to direct the child's actions or conversations in any manner, the child leads the way; the therapist follows. 7) The therapist does not attempt to hurry the therapy along. It is a gradual process, recognised as such by the therapist. 8) The therapist establishes only those limitations necessary to anchor the therapy to the world of reality and to make the child aware of her responsibility in the relationship. Axline also states that the above principles are interwoven and interdependent on the others. Clark Moustakas (1953/74)
Children in Play Therapy; talks about child-centred play therapy and defines the relationship needed to ensure that the therapy is a growth experience, particularly that the therapist needs to respect and accept the child. He identifies four stages in the therapeutic process; the child's emotions are diffused and feelings are generally negative. the relationship develops and attitudes of hostility become more specific and anger is expressed against particular people/experiences. As the negative feelings are expressed and the therapist accepts them, they become less intense. the child becomes less negative. S/he still has anger but is no longer ambivalent towards the peope in her/his life. positive feelings emerge. The child sees her/himself, and the relationship with others in a more balanced way. The levels of the process occur in individually varying sequences with some overlapping. The key elements in this method are the security of the child with the therapist. The conditions necessary for 'self-actualisation' to occur through non-directive and child-centred therapy can be characterised by three elements or core conditions;
These three elements are
genuineness and authenticity - that is the capacity to be real, to be themselves as opposed to adopting a role or defensive posture with the client. non-possessive warmth - an attitude of caring and engaged and friendly concern, without becoming overly emotionally involved or offering help for self-serving reasons. accurate empathy - the ability to feel with those who are seeking help, and articulate these feelings. So what about the actual therapy itself? What does it entail?
Sensory/embodiment Play
Different mediums have a different place with each child. Tactile materials such as gloop are used by children to represent a number of things, such as the world falling in on top of you, small creatures being buried under a mound of slime. Or it can be used to regress to babyhood and messy play, touching, smearing, throwing, or representing their own bodies through the material, where it becomes 'snot' or 'sick' or other body fluids etc. The child explores and experiences the world through the senses, then begins to explore objects, materials and toys outside herself.
The child begins to discover the external world through the exploration of toys and objects external to herself. It can take a narrative form, making up stories around the objects, but sometimes takes the form of embodiment play where the objects are used as a form of sensory experience. So a child may make a monster out of play dough and structure a story about it, or take pleasure in playing with the material , smelling touching, hitting, poking; enjoying a bodily reaction to the material. Children often represent their social world through symbolic play. Children signal that they are about to start, or change playing, by various methods such as saying "do you want to play with me,?" "now I'm a monster" and close the playing by negating the roles "I'm not dead any more" marking boundaries of when children enter and leave the play. Symbolic play enables the experience of subjective realities in alternative environments, whilst also sharing this experience with others. The participants agree to create an alternative reality. Abused children find symbols or metaphors to describe their pain, thus allowing them to to explore past relationships in a multi-dimensional way and make some meaning and resolution of their past. Actual techniques of play therapy vary between schools of thought, and also between therapists within these schools. What is clear though, is that play is crucial to the development of children, and given that, it can be utilised to identify and resolve trauma that the child may have experienced in their lives.Play is explicitly recognized in Article 31 of The Conventions on the Rights of a Child (adopted by the General Assembly of the United Nations. November 29, 1989). which states:
The American Society of Paediatricians (AAP) published a study in 2006 entitled: "The Importance of Play in Promoting Healthy Child Development and Maintaining Strong Parent-Child Bonds".
The report states: "free and unstructured play is healthy and - in fact - essential for helping children reach important social, emotional, and cognitive developmental milestones as well as helping them manage stress and become resilient.”
Childhood 'play' is also seen by Sally Jenkinson (author of The Genius of Play) to be an intimate and integral part of childhood development. "In giving primacy to adult knowledge, to our 'grown-up' ways of seeing the world, have we forgotten how to value other kinds of wisdom? Do we still care about the small secret corners of children's wisdom?" Modern research in the field of 'affective neuroscience' has uncovered important links between role playing and neurogenesis in the brain. Sociologist Roger Callios coined the word "ilinx" to describe the momentary disruption of perception that comes from forms of physical play that disorient the senses, especially balance. In addition evolutionary psychologists have begun to expound the phylogenetic relationship between higher intelligence in humans and its relationship to play.
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